i found this so close to our hearts and it's being posted by our dearly boss from num. let me share this messasge from him, to all of you:)


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I believe not many of you own 27 pairs of havaianas, at least at one goal, but I do. But you need not own this many to understand what I am going to share.

The common one thing is this. No matter how many pairs of havaianas you own, there is this one favourite pair that you wear it all the time, and its often the least colourful, least decorative, and the most basic one.

This is how it is to life.

I had the opportunity to catch 27 dresses last night. It is about a girl, who falls in love so much with the wedding ceremony that, though she can't create her own (bcos the man she falls in love with for the longest time, takes her for granted) , she ended up being the bridemaid for 27 times.

How silly we are sometimes to do so much for love, even though we know that it could be impossible. Yet. We hold on dearly, wishing things will change.

The worse is we sacrifice so much of ourselves, in the name of love, to make the other party think that we are loving them. This is an emotional bribery really.

I love you this much and u should love me.

I sacrifice so much for you and u should love me too.

I treat u well and u must treat me well of course.

Are u one of those?

I was talking to Caesar recently. I said many thing in life, like your studies, career and many other things, they are easy to be in control of.

U work hard u will do well in yr career.

U study hard u will score well in yr exams.

But comes to relationships, its often not working in the same manner.

You can give everything, put in all the efforts, throw in your whole being, invest your full emotion, you can still end up with nothing.

Its about one thing in life that many have no control over it at all, including me.

But trust me, as you grow, you learn to be wise, and though you can't be in control of anything external, you can take control of your own life and emotion and expectation.

A few things I have learnt about love. When I say I have learnt, I mean I am truly practising them now.

* there is no expectation, there will be no disappointment.
* if you truly love a person, you let him be himself (or her be herself), including the decision to leave you.
* only when you have learnt to respect yourself, you will never be in a great relationship.
* never fall in love with love, falls in love with the person.

I know many of you have heard these many times, but I'm sure not many of you could practise them all.

It took me a great lots of years and living to see them through yet I'm still learning.

I don't want to take me 27 dresses to live my life properly. Neither 27 pairs of havaianas to see that I could have learnt it since the beginning.

How about you?

Take control of your life, don't let others take control of u.


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